Thursday, June 25, 2009

13-14 weeks pregnant!


Hello baby!!!

Haven’t written in a while, but things have been pretty much the same. GOOD NEWS!! My nausea and vomiting have reduced SIGNIFICANTLY!!! I still find that the hallway from my job smells and I still gag but at least is not making me throw up!

I think the doctor’s are a little confused or crazy because one doc told me that by now I should be 13 weeks and 2 days, but Tuesday when I went to the doctor’s again, I was told I was almost 14 weeks…that’s a week extra, which is what I originally thought!!! Making my new due date December 24th and not the 29th……

Speaking of doctor’s appointments, this was the longest yet!! I was there for almost 2 hours and saw the Social Worker (a chatterbox who spoke of nothing but her son buying a new house and asked me a few questions to fill out a form). I saw the nurse who gave me a lot of information of what to do and what NOT to do…most of which I new already….then I saw the nutritionist who just gave me a few handouts of things I should eat and what to avoid. All of this while poor Robert was waiting alone outside!

I have another appointment on July 10th and I will FINALLY see the doctor. They will also do a hepatitis vaccine and I would have to go back Sunday to the emergency room to have them check it. I hope she schedules the first sonogram fast, cause I want to see who is causing me so much trouble!! 

One thing I am embarrassed about is that I gained 10 pounds so far!!! The nurse told me that usually you don’t gain weight on the first trimester (especially since you’re throwing up all the time). So now I have to watch what I eat and I am NOT eating for two because the baby barely eats yet…hahahaha…that was my excuse for everything!! I’ve been eating a little better since yesterday. I’m trying to eat more fruits and veggies and staying away from bread…sigh my favorite of all carbs. But if you eat too much bread and starch you might develop diabetes and that is WORSE!! So bread, we’re taking a little break, you and I.

Today I am having the WORSE head ache/tooth ache/ear ache in the WORLD!!...ok maybe not in the world, but is pretty bad. I already scheduled a Dentist appt for tomorrow at 9am, so hopefully he can do something because I can’t take more than 2 Tylenols a day and the Anbesol only works for a few minutes

Oh, for father’s day I gave Robert a frame with a poem called “My Daddy’s hands”. He cried when he read it because he, as I did too, did not have the opportunity of growing up with his real father. At least I grew up with my two uncles who I now call daddy. But he didn’t have that privilege. The poem it reads as follows



“My Daddy's Hands”
“Daddy, take my hand in yours and you will plainly see,
How very much I need you now to love and care for me.
As my little hand grows, I will need you even more,
Everything I do in life, I have never done before.
Teach me to be Kind and loving, sharing and forgiving,
Show me through your acts of love the pure joy of living.
The years will pass by quickly, and one day I will be grown
I will pass what you have taught me on to children of my own
Hold me always in your thoughts and remember when we are apart
The special love between a child and a daddy's heart.
See you in December, dad.


That is it for today….see ya next time!!

Symptoms: mild pain in my belly, but the nurse said it was ok, that it was my uterus expanding. Nausea when smelling strong odors and the occasional pain in the butt, haha. The other head ache/tooth ache/ear ache is not pregnancy related.

Friday, June 12, 2009

11 weeks, 3 days


11 weeks, 3 days

Nothing much has happened since last week. Everything seems to be running smooooooothly…except for the DREADED morning sickness!! It seems that it will never go away .

I’ve been having some headaches, but that is the result of a toothache, which is driving me crazy!!

Oh, my mother’s bday is on Sunday so I’m going to spend the weekend at her house in the Bronx. She is turning 44! I told her she is like Vicks now!! Hahahahah

Tuesday I will be on my third month!! Woo hoo!!! And the 23rd I have a Dr’s appt to see the nutritionist, the social worker (I don’t know why) and my doctor.

I can’t wait till my belly pops out and then I get to meet my bundle of joy!!!

Till next week!! I hope to have better news regarding the morning sickness….




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Symptoms: Morning sickness, tiredness, headache (due to a toothache) and hormonal (oh yes!!).

Friday, June 5, 2009

10 weeks 3 days...


June 5th, 2009

Today I am 10 weeks and 3 days.

This afternoon I’m going to the hospital to get registered and all that good stuff. I don’t know if I will be able to see the doctor, but we will see.

I am so excited!! Every day that passes and everything is ok is like a gift sent from heaven!
Although I was very scared of having a miscarriage when I first found out I was pregnant, it is slowing going away as the days pass. I am learning to enjoy the new curves on my body and even the morning sickness!! Go figure!! 

Although I am very happy and can’t wait for my baby to be born, I have managed to get into funky moods and have said things I probably shouldn’t have. For that, I apologize to whoever’s feelings were hurt.

Speaking of feelings being hurt, I know my sister in law got mad at me because I said I wanted my mother to be my baby’s Godmother. Ever since I thought of myself with a baby I pictured my mother being the Godmother. I was told I couldn’t do that but I researched it and even emailed St. Patrick’s Cathedral and YES she can be. There is no reason why she cannot. I am really sorry if she got upset at me and it was not my intention to hurt her, but I never promised anything nor did she asked, she just assumed. I really do not want any animosity, hostility or resentment from her because I love her like she was my own flesh and blood. Unfortunately my mind is made up. I know that my mother in law will probably get upset too because she will think “If a grandmother can be a Godmother, why can’t I?”…This is tearing me apart and it has made me cry, but like I said, my decision was made.

All that matters is that they will both be part of this kid’s life!! Even more so than my own mother because they live closer!! I see my family maybe once or twice a month and I see my in-laws at least once a week. They have been there for me when my mom is too far to come and I will always appreciate that. They will be closer to this baby than they think!! The important thing is that Ada will always be the gramma who is a bus or taxi ride away and Janet will be the spoiling auntie. Ok, I’m not going to continue because I am at work and my eyes are watering as I write. This should be a time of happiness not conflicts!!

I saw this poem and I loved it!! I think it says a lot…even between the lines…

I do not have a face to see,
Or put inside a frame.
I do not have soft cheeks to kiss.
I don't yet have a name.

Not yet can I hold your tiny hands,
Nor whisper in your ear.
It's still too soon to sing a song,
Or cuddle me so near.

But all that will change come this December;
When they say I am due.
You are my first miracle child;
And I can't wait until I meet you!

All I ask between now and then
Is your love for you to grow.
I promise I'll be worth the wait;
Just think of all the joy we'll know!

So as I’m waiting patiently,
Please pray lots of prayers for me.
I cannot wait for you to be a part
Of this wonderful family!


Symptoms: Nausea, vomiting, moodiness, bloating, pain in the buttocks, headaches, EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER!!!!, hungry and fatigue.